I think those personality traits you mentioned are ones I can pretty much agree with. Someone who's (at least a little) confident without being arrogant (raging insecurity is, IMO, the key to a LOT of negative traits), someone who has goals and has a spine and can motivate themselves (not someone who'll lie down and let the world crush them, but not someone who wants to be a millionaire by 30, either), someone who can laugh with me and talk with me and be intelligent and be silly, someone who is caring (and who I can imagine as a dad). Someone who will let me get angry about the world knowing I don't really mean it; someone who can at least a little bit share my optimism. Physically, I am all about the dark-haired guys. (Whenever I'm occasionally attracted to fairer/blond guys, it tends to fade more quickly.) I also don't like guys who are either very thin or very beefy. Height doesn't matter; I know a lot of girls are anti-short guys but... I'm a short girl, why would I demand someone a foot taller than me?
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Date: 2008-12-10 09:52 pm (UTC)Physically, I am all about the dark-haired guys. (Whenever I'm occasionally attracted to fairer/blond guys, it tends to fade more quickly.) I also don't like guys who are either very thin or very beefy. Height doesn't matter; I know a lot of girls are anti-short guys but... I'm a short girl, why would I demand someone a foot taller than me?