Confidence sarcastic sense of humor being as loud and talkative as me ambition intelligence creativity reasonably fit body mostly hairless chest and back facial hair (yes, despite the hairless body thing) tall dark hair (blondes and redheads pretty much not need apply) feminist the ability to be sort of a lovable asshole, but with the emphasis on lovable It's worth noting that this is probably the biggest predictor of initial attraction, that and the dark hair thing
In women, I've always been drawn to: Well, honestly, pretty much all the same qualities...sans the facial hair. The only women-specific things really are-- *A personal style that falls somewhere in between butch and femme. Femmy butches and butchy femmes are sexy! *I am attracted to a wider swath of body types in women. I frequently find myself attracted to women who, if they were a man, would be too heavy for me.
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Date: 2008-12-10 09:36 pm (UTC)Confidence
sarcastic sense of humor
being as loud and talkative as me
ambition
intelligence
creativity
reasonably fit body
mostly hairless chest and back
facial hair (yes, despite the hairless body thing)
tall
dark hair (blondes and redheads pretty much not need apply)
feminist
the ability to be sort of a lovable asshole, but with the emphasis on lovable It's worth noting that this is probably the biggest predictor of initial attraction, that and the dark hair thing
In women, I've always been drawn to: Well, honestly, pretty much all the same qualities...sans the facial hair. The only women-specific things really are--
*A personal style that falls somewhere in between butch and femme. Femmy butches and butchy femmes are sexy!
*I am attracted to a wider swath of body types in women. I frequently find myself attracted to women who, if they were a man, would be too heavy for me.