Cleolinda everywhere

Well, if you don't mind me offering my opinion, there are a few ways to look at it (some of which others have mentioned): 1) You have achieved a level of success that many of us your age or a little bit older have not attained - so perhaps look at the success you have in certain areas as a more accurate measure, 2) If you really are bothered by living at home at age 28 (let it be noted that in contemporary culture you have LOTS of company, most of whom haven't published a book or garnered a sizeable internet audience), perhaps think about why it bothered you. If it's just because of how it looks from the outside, then work on that (not being so concerned with appearances; knowing that this is a good situation for you and is not permanent); if you really *want* that kind of independence, then perhaps make a plan for moving out (whether that plan is more immediate or might take a few years)...

It's easy to compare yourself unfavourably with others. I was in grad school until I was 26 (not much younger than you) and in the last 4 years I've lived with my dad for a portion, and I haven't been fully employed, etc. We all have our stories and circumstances. If there are things you want to work on, then do that work; but know that from where many of us stand, on the balance you have done a LOT for the age you're at!

(I'd be happy to chat more specifically about things through email if you're interested. *hugs*)